The 12 Levers
- 1Unravel the Causes
- Better understanding leads to better solutions.
- ABC analysis: Break problems into Activating event, Beliefs, and Consequences.
- 2Uncover Your Guiding Foundations
- Clarifying your guiding foundations helps give your life direction.
- Identify a list of 5-10 things you intrinsically value using exploratory questions, life domains, or existing lists
- 3Actualize Your Guiding Foundations
Align your goals with your guiding foundations.
- 4Prepare for the Storm
- Create plans to prepare for recurring problems.
- Recognize risk factors, identify early warning signs, and develop prevention and coping strategies.
- 5Approach the Monster
- Confront your fears through gradual exposure.
- Avoid engaging in “safety behaviors,” since these can undermine your progress.
- 6Shift Your Body to Shift Your Mind
- Optimize your sleep.
- To relax, try progressive muscle relaxation or slow breathing.
- To increase your energy, try deliberate hyperventilation.
- Cold exposure has potential general benefits, and can be used to temporarily manage intense negative emotions.
- Aim for 2.5 hours of moderate cardio and 2 strength training sessions per week.
- 7Steward Your Thoughts
- Cognitive restructuring
- Identify the main distressing thought, identify cognitive distortions, ask reframing questions, and create a more balanced belief.
- Parts work
- To make sense of your complex inner world, try thinking in terms of different “parts” within your mind.
- Identify the main parts involved in your distress, activate the “Compassionate Self,” and engage with the triggered part.
- Postponement
- If you struggle with spirals of worry or rumination, try scheduling a recurring 15-minute “worry time.” When worries arise, tell yourself “this can wait.”
- Cognitive restructuring
- 8Tune the Productivity Equation
Productivity is the product of time, efficiency, and importance.
- 9Do More Glad-You-Did-It Activities